The Rite of Companionship
(For Seekers who choose to affirm a bond of love, friendship, or shared journey. This rite celebrates connection.)
Purpose
The Rite of Companionship honors the act of choosing one another.
It may bless any form of bond—romantic, platonic, creative, or communal.
It does not replace or alter civil law, nor does it establish legal partnership or inheritance rights.
Participation in this Rite carries no legal or financial obligation; its only force is consent and mutual recognition.
The bond affirmed here endures only by continued choice.
Any Seeker may release the bond at any time, with honesty and respect, and without stigma or penalty.
Revocation of the Rite does not require community approval or ceremony—
the word no longer spoken in truth is sufficient.
The Rite marks the moment two or more Seekers stand before their community, or in quiet solitude, and say:
"I choose to walk beside you."
This is not ownership.
This is the freedom of companionship made visible.
Preparation
The space is simple, clear, and honest.
Those taking part may bring what feels right:
a candle, cup, or cord,
music, laughter, or silence,
a token that holds meaning.
These are symbols only; the truth lives in the words.
Opening
When all are ready, those forming the bond stand together.
Each takes a breath and speaks:
"We meet here not to bind what is unwilling,
but to bless what already exists between us.
Companionship is not ownership;
it is the choice to remain kind in one another’s company."
A moment of stillness follows.
Statements of Intention
One participant, in their own words, may speak what this companionship means.
If desired, they may use these words:
"I choose to walk beside you in trust and respect.
I offer my presence, my listening, and my honesty.
I claim no ownership, only partnership.
I know we will stumble, and that stumbling together still counts as dance."
The other participant(s) shall answer:
"I see you. I hear you. I walk beside you."
Shared Symbol
If desired, share a gesture:
light one candle from another,
tie a ribbon loosely around joined hands and release it,
share a cup or a smile.
Say together:
"What joins us is choice.
What frees us is that same choice, honored."
Witness and Blessing
Others present, may offer short blessings, laughter, or stories.
There is no script—only sincerity.
The community witnesses, not sanctions.
Affirmation
Together, speak:
"We are companions—not by command,
but by consent.
We are imperfect, yet persistent,
and our bond, however it changes,
remains a testament to care freely given."
Pause to breathe together.
Closing
"Go forth as companions in all your forms.
May the path between you stay open.
May your imperfections make room for grace.
May the world be gentler for your choosing."
No seal, signature, or legal vow is required.
This Rite blesses the heart, not the record.
The moment itself is enough.
The Liturgy of the Kinheart Assembly is a living document — updated through careful review and consensus.
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