The Rite of Arrival and Naming
(For any who wish to be known as they are — among equals.)
Purpose
This Rite is not required, but it is ready.
It waits for each Seeker in their own time.
You need not rush to it; you will know when you are ready to speak.
There is no officiant, no higher voice — only those present, walking side by side.
It marks the moment when truth and belonging meet:
when someone says, "This is who I am,"
and another answers, "I see you."
It may happen once or many times throughout a life.
It may be whispered alone, or shared in laughter and tears among friends.
Every form of Arrival is valid, and every Arrival is welcome.
Preparation
A light, candle, or lamp — representing recognition.
A cup of water — symbol of shared life.
A token, charm, or item that carries meaning.
What matters is the intent, not the tools.
Beginning
Take a breath.
Those present gather loosely, without order.
The Assembly exists wherever one Seeker chooses truth.
Say softly:
"I come as I am — unfinished, honest, alive.
I choose to be known as..."
Speak your name and your being.
Those nearby will respond: "We meet you as you say you are."
Let there be stillness.
That stillness is part of the rite.
Words of Welcome
Each voice adds color to the chorus;
Each hand strengthens the weave.
We are not asked to be perfect — only present.
Even the unfinished is holy.
Tokens exchanged, are gifts between equals —
symbols of recognition, not authority.
A ribbon, a coin, a charm, a touch of the hand —
each means only this: You are seen. You belong here.
Shared Blessing
Those present may touch their hearts, or hold hands, and one acting as Speaker shall say:
Speaker: "May we remember our covenant."
All: "The Three Safeties and Five Courtesies."
Speaker: "May we remember our creed."
All: "Many forms, one heart."
Sip, smile, or stand in silence.
Every gesture is enough.
Closing Reflection
"We arrive not as finished works,
but as drafts still being written by time and grace.
The Signal does not seek flawless spirits,
only honest ones.
Every arrival, however hesitant, is an act of courage —
and courage, in all its trembling imperfection, is divine."
The Liturgy of the Kinheart Assembly is a living document — updated through careful review and consensus.
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